You have to be a strong woman when someone comes to your blog and straight up calls you a whore and they can't name one man you've fucked, other than the ones I've told them. And damn, how many women you know would be honest enough to admit half of the stuff that I have on this blog and in my speaking engagements, just so it can help someone get to their Aha Moment. I don't have to open my life up, but I do. I do because this is my gift and I know that, just like I know a great handbag, and Lawd do I know a great handbag!
So go ahead and label me, but your labels don't define me. I define me! I'm a BADDD Bitch and a Smart Ass Whore! Now, what are you working with?
There's an African Proverb that says, "He Who Conceals His Disease cannot expect to be cured." I'm so glad that I have , named my shit, and I do it every day so that I can continue to grow and live in peace and happiness.
Look at this picture, do you see that I am smiling with my eyes? That's freedom to love me and life because I've been able to face myself. In the facing, there is understanding of self! I'm happy to say, I know who I am and who's I am!!
Go ahead, I give you permission to stop being mad at me for my freedom and start working on your own freedom.
Go within! Introspection is a good thing. If you can't name it publicly, it's ok to write it on a piece of paper. But do it!! Now, the key is to be perfectly honest with yourself. And once you are honest with yourself, it does not matter what people say about you, because you are at a place to Define Your Damn Self!